Well, who’d of thought my blog would be few & far between?! ;)

Anyway, I have a subject that I’d really like some feedback on. A current joint project is involving a bit of research into relationships, sexual ones in particular.

I’d really appreciate people’s views on the subject. Male perspectives too please! But don’t let that put you ladies off! All opinions are really needed!

So… when it comes to relationships (or just women in general) what do you guys really want to know?

What have you always wondered, what would be useful for you to have a better insight into?

Women, what would you love your man to know?!

To start you off, some of the subjects that need covering are:

Dating in general & how to meet people ‘socialising ‘v’ internet.

How to read body language, is she/he really into you?

Playing it cool ‘v’ not interested.

Why we’re not all meant for each other.

The smell/taste test!

Compliments. For every negative comment made you have to give 5 positive to neutralise, apparently!

Focusing on the positive: Focusing on what you do want in life & out of your relationship, rather than the things that you don’t want.

Women’s bodies – the uniqueness, the shapes & sizes.

Female hormone cycle.

The hormone surges & releases caused by orgasm. Use it or lose. Peaks & dips in levels of interest. These things work both ways.

If you have something to say about your sex life – NEVER say it just before during or straight after sex.

What not to say!

What makes a relationship go the distance?

Sticking together through thick & thin… is it good for you? Can you really make it work.

Loyalty & fidelity.

What do you class marriage as ‘ tied down’ ‘soulmate connection’ ‘the institute of marriage’

Marriage after kids.

Without going to depth in this blog, but all manner of intimacy. Where are your thoughts there? What would help you if you knew more details?

OK, so I could go on & on, but hopefully this will give some people a starting point. As much or as little feedback on your feelings on any of the above would be really great!

As for my opinions, well you’ll find those out at some point in the future! Please please do send me a message! All messages will remain confidential at all times.

Many thanks, Jay x